5th Grade Fair & Bullying

We had an exciting opportunity to represent YESS this week at the two-day 5th Grade Fair. Sunset Ridge, Mesa, Flynn, and Harris Park Elementary schools were all in attendance during the two days, and I selected several YESS mentors and their mentees to speak to the 5th graders about why they joined YESS, what they were like when I first met them, and how they feel now that they have the support of YESS.

Amanda and her mentee Lea and Ean and his mentee Josiah speak to 5th graders at the fair.

I was so impressed by their abilities to speak clearly and confidently about their experiences.







The mentees, in particular, where exceptional. As 6th grade mentee Josiah put it, "When I first joined YESS I was very shy. But now I can talk to all of you guys and I don't even know you, but that is OK, because I have Ean and I know he can help me be more confident." We had countless 5th graders express their desires to join YESS, and I know we will have a great group of mentees to choose from come fall.

So proud of these eloquent speakers!

This past week in YESS we finished our documentary on bullying and did some further research as to why, exactly, bullies bully. We spent two days reading an article in a "Round Robin" fashion while having one mentor act as the "scribe" to take Cornell notes. Our scholars did a fantastic job of sharing these responsibilities. We learned some interesting facts, according to a recent study, such  as: 

Breann, Aileen, and their mentee Selene work to take Cornell Notes on Bullying.

• 50% of people experience bullying before their 20th birthday  
• 66% of people who admitted to bullying others were male. 
• Bullies are far more likely to have experienced a stressful or traumatic event of some sort within the last five years. 
• 33% of bullies are raised by someone other than their biological parents, often in a household that is crowded and may be violent. 
• Those who experience bullying are twice as likely to go on and bully others, and bullies often feel as their most important relationships are unstable and/or in jeopardy. 

Our scholars really connected with the documentary and are certainly viewing assault and bullying in a much more serious light. I am proud of the conversations we have had and the maturity with which they have handled this complex, personal, and very sensitive lesson. 

Stay tuned for more next week! 

Audrie & Daisy: Bullying

Sergio and his mentee, Andre, write examples.

This past week in YESS we continued our discussion of healthy relationships by further discussing the issue of bullying. We did an exercise in which each mentee and mentor had to identify different bullying scenarios that they had either encountered personally, seen first hand, or heard about from a friend or on social media. At first, it was difficult for our scholars to be detailed-- this is a very personal exercise-- but after a few minutes and a little help, we had many different examples of bullying and harassment.

Zoe begins to sort the various examples of bullying.

I distributed four sticky notes to each scholar and asked them to fill these four notes with four different examples. Once each person was done, the table then worked as a group to try to identity and categorize the various types of bullying. Each table was given four different categories: cyber bullying, verbal bullying, psychical bullying, and relational bullying (the most difficult for all to grasp). Relational bullying, as we discussed it, is when an individual uses his or her relationship with you to exercise power over you. "Do this, or else..." is another way we defined it. It was surprising for so many to realize that this is a form of bullying. "Sit with me at lunch or else I will tell your crush that you like him/her in 6th hour today." This really hit home as I explained that these sorts of behaviors can escalate over time and can become increasingly more threatening and damaging.

Brisa and her mentee, Bethsy, did an excellent job!

3rd hour works to organize their various bullying experiences.

Once we had a general understanding of the different forms of bullying, we began a documentary called, "Audrie & Daisy." This film follows the lives of two young ladies who were bullied and assaulted in two different states: California and Missouri. We are watching this in twenty minute segments and we are learning new vocabulary such as deposition, allegation, alleged, district attorney, felony, and misdemeanor. While this is a difficult documentary to watch, it is certainly very poignant, and our scholars are really connecting with the message, which is-- BE AN UPSTANDER.

As we have discussed in YESS, an "upstander" is someone who speaks out against bullying and harassment, no matter who the victim may be. The opposite of this action is to be a bystander and to do nothing to help the situation.

Next week we will conclude the documentary and we will be moving on to discuss belief systems. Stay tuned!

Dr.MLK Jr. & Student Led Conferences

Parents learn about "stinking thinking" during conferences.

A great example of a script from a wonderful mentor!

This past week was a busy one as we hosted our second semester Parent Conferences! We had almost fifty families visit our YESS classroom over the course of two nights and it was truly an honor to connect with parents, siblings, and guardians. I have seen so much growth in our YESS scholars this year and it is always a wonderful experience to hear the same things from our families. "You are so awesome Ms. Garnett, her attitude is totally different now!" and, "I don't know what you did, Ms. Garnett, but he is working so much harder now and we got great reviews from all of his teachers this time!" are just a few examples of the pride that was expressed to me. Our mentors and mentees are truly making gains this year, and it is usually around this time in the year that other teachers, coaches, and family members begin to note the changes in attitude and work ethic. I am so proud of our YESS scholars!

Conferences are a great time to check in with each and every scholar. Over the course of two days I meet one-on-one with each mentee and mentor to go over our conferences script (see example) and to take a look in Empower to better understand their learning targets and progress in all other classes. We also take a look at attendance to see if there are any issues with unexcused tardies or unexcused absences. This helps bring awareness to these issues so that we may take steps to change, if necessary.

Mentors learn about Chavez in the tech lab during Mentor Monday.

Since the mentors and I have been discussing leadership during our time on Mondays we took some time this week to include the mentees in our discussions of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and his contemporaries in the Civil Rights movement. We watched, "I Have a Dream," and discussed the relevance to today's political climate. We took at look at the Ram Super Bowl commercial ad that was aired on the 50th anniversary of Dr. King's, "Drum Instinct Major," speech to better understand appropriation and how it effects our culture. First, we viewed the ad--which seemed harmless, just a few shots inspiring patriotic acts with Dr. King's speech over top--but we when looked more closely at the nature of the speech, it became clear how Dr. King's words had been stolen and misused. In fact, in the original speech, Dr. King warns:

"Now the presence of this instinct explains why we are so often taken by advertisers. You know, those gentlemen of massive verbal persuasion. And they have a way of saying things to you that kind of gets you into buying. In order to be a man of distinction, you must drink this whiskey. In order to make your neighbors envious, you must drive this type of car. (Make it plain) In order to be lovely to love you must wear this kind of lipstick or this kind of perfume. And you know, before you know it, you're just buying that stuff. (Yes) That's the way the advertisers do it."

7th hour watches, "I Have a Dream."

Thomas and Sergio partner up to take Cornell notes on Chavez during Tutoring Tuesday.

Our scholars were shocked to hear Dr. King warning about advertisements and could not believe that his speech had been appropriated to, as Dr. King's friend Dr. Harry Edward's said, "peddle trucks." It really got them all thinking about the ways they interpret messages and to question the truth of the message itself.

Next week will continue our discussions on healthy relationships by looking at negative beliefs we often unknowingly hold on to and how they in turn affect our personal beliefs.

The Brain (Part 2)

Elisio and Nick work to complete the crossword puzzle.

Great work from Bethsy!

Great work from Bethsy!

Last week we wrapped up our lessons on the brain by learning even more about the various, localized parts of the brain. We continued our "Brain Word Sort" this week and, just when the menetees and mentors became comfortable with the terminology, I added five new words: medulla, hippocampus, thalamus, hypothalamus, and the nervous system. While many were frustrated by the new words at first, by the end of the day Friday every single table was feeling very confident about the new additions. We also watched several short videos that explained why the teenage brain is so "moody"--hint, it is science!--and I am pleased to say that our scholars are really connecting with this content. I even had two young mentees ask if they could share out the brain video with their mothers as they wanted to show them what they had been learning in YESS.

We wrapped up our week by completing a brain crossword puzzle. It was shocking to see how quickly every single class completed this (one class had it done in less than 10 minutes!) as they are really familiar with these terms at this point. I am glad they are accessing this material so quickly and easily as we will continue to build upon this knowledge as we continue working through our relationship unit.

Exemplary Cornell Notes from Mentor Breann McCoy.

Last week we also spent two days discussing Malala Yousafzai, a young Pakistani woman who has fought for the right for women to be educated and who almost lost her life due to her efforts. The mentors and I took Cornell notes on her on Monday and, on Tuesday, we watched a video with the class that explained her life and how she miraculously survived being shot in the head at close range. This was well timed with our talks on the brain as our scholars clearly understand that it is possible to be shot in the head and not to suffer major brain damage. Malala is a wonderful example of an empowered young leader, and I know so many of our scholars really connected with her story.

Next week we have Student-led Parent Conferences and I am looking forward to meeting with families!